You Are Enough
“Only now so I realize I have always been enough. Even when I thought I wasn’t.”
Irini Zoica
Far too often we get consumed with thoughts about what others think about us. How many times have you walked into a room, scanned your surroundings to see who was looking at you, or scan to see if you are the biggest, oldest or shortest person in the room in order to access your value in that room.
The crazy thing is that often those people you think are judging you are truly in their own heads worried about what people will think about them.
As I get older I care less about what people think about me and want to get to a place where what people think about me does not affect me at all. Obviously at work what people think about you can affect the success you have at work. At the same time you need to understand is no matter what you say, what you do, how nice you treat someone there are people who will just dis-like you and in some cases just truly depise and hate you for being you.
I truly feel those intimidated by me or dislike me I reflect a mirror image of what they are lacking in themselves. If you are intimidated by me just by my appearance and never have spoken to me, that truly shows your character. You have insecurities in you and lacking of self worth if just by how someone looks intimidates you. Also if they get to know me or someone like me they often hate the qualities I have that they lack in themselves.
I truly believe in low and high energy vibrtions.
What do I mean?
Low Energy Vibrations: Misalignment of your higher self and often carry heavy emotions like fear, anger, shame, apathy and grief. Low energy people are the ones who seem to love being miserable and complaining all the time.
High Energy Vibrations: State of being aligned with positive emotions like love, gratitude, joy and compassion. Your energy fills a room and often leave a long positive impact on people and most people naturally gravitate towards you.
I feel I come from a level of high vibration. Even in the bad times I look for the good in the situation and the lessons I can learn from what I went through.
It is like bird the phoenix. A phoenix will burn to ashes many times but every time they will rise again. Strong and more powerful with more wisdom than before. They are better and stronger for what they have gone through.
For those of you that struggle with the belief that you are not enough please remember this. Being enough does not mean that everyone will accept you or choose you, or love you.
Being enough means…
knowing your worth doesn’t decrease because someone failed to see it
allowing yourself to grow without hating the person you are today
not needing to prove your value to people committed to mis-understanding you
you can makes mistakes and still be a good person, a good leader, a good partner or friend
you choose you
knowing you are still worthy, even when you weren’t enough for a particular person, position or moment.
Being enough means no longer using someone else’s inability to see your value as proof that you don’t have any.
